The expression "French Kiss” became a part of the English language in 1923. It was actually considered a slang term or a blemish on the French culture. People who indulged in it were concerned were concerned to be sexually obsessed. The expression meant a passion filled open mouth kiss which involved touching or playing of tongues.

The French kiss was popularized by British and American soldiers after the World War One. The French soldiers who were their allies would regale their British and American counterparts and colleagues with tales of their sexual exploits and steamy kisses. The promiscuousness and the inhibition-free attitude of the French caught on to the Americans and the British and they display the same animal passion on to their wives when they came back victorious from the battle. All the pent-up sexual frustration and angst was let loose in a volley of steamy French kisses on their beloved.

Now, French kissing is evident in almost all the movies, Hollywood, Bollywood and even artistic cinemas and plays worldwide. Of course, it goes without saying that the French kiss are one of the passionate and popular kisses which lover can share. This kiss involves open mouths with tongues gently probing and twirling against the delicate skin in the interiors of the mouth. The French kiss is also hailed as the kiss of the soul. You feel that your soul merges with the one of your lover and the breath of life passes through the mouth of one to the other through the heat of the tongues.

French kissing techniques

French kissing is not difficult. All you need to do is the right time and mood. As with most kisses, what you require here is to be relaxed. You should not feel any sort of tension in your neck and shoulders. Take a deep breath to feel calm. Look at your lovers eyes. Pull her close to you and keep looking. Then caress her hair or face softly and put your arms around her. A kiss never starts with a French kiss, it develops into one. So, start with a basic kiss which is neither too strong nor violent. Close your eyes as you immerse her and yourself in the kiss.

In the middle of the kiss, gently open your mouth and delicately push your girl’s mouth open using your tongue. Without being too forceful, move your tongue inside hers and play with hers. Don’t let your tongue go limp. Increase the passion and the force of your kiss when she opens her mouth or indicates that she likes what you are doing. Play it around her tongue and push the tongue back into her and let her push it back yours. Try to circle the tip of your tongue around hers. Keep flicking and plunging your tongue into hers. As the intensity of the kisses increase and your lips ignite with the fire of passion, there can be an excess of saliva forming in your mouths, which you should shallow rather than dribble and create a mess.

If you meet with resistance during the course of the kiss it doesn't mean rejection. It could mean that she is not yet prepared to take things further. The first kiss may not always be the French kiss because the woman wants to get her comfort level up to yours. When your French kissing, see that you kiss her slowly at first and then pick up the intensity. It is a very sexy thing to feel your woman’s tongue lashing at yours playfully. The lady enjoys it every bit as you when she feels passionate but initially you have to move your tongue into hers in a gentle and caring way. Do not end the French kiss abruptly; see that you lay a soft gentle kiss after you are done with the French kissing. And yes, still hold her in your arms and enjoy her body getting rubbed against yours.

The French kiss is the wettest of all kisses. It is good to start with dry lips and then let them get wet in the heat of things. You should not moisten your tongue before starting with a French kiss. If either one of you or both wear braces, try to be gentle when things take the passionate course.